Tuesday, March 24, 2009

My Four Women...

Having had cribbed about being single all my life, I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't take my share of the blame. I have to agree (with a friend of mine...though I hate to admit she's been right...) that unless a woman is out of reach, she isn't attractive to me. I love doomed relationships apparently...and in hindsight it seems to be an appropriate summary of my sad love life. Well, nonetheless, I thought a little and I reckon if I am not gonna have one successful relationship, I'd like to have 4 different relationships based on the 4 facets that go into making a successful relationship.


  1. Soul

  2. Heart

  3. Body

  4. Mind

The Soul: My soul, I do know isn't as pure as I thought it was but I always hoped to be completed by someone with a soul that was purer than mine. This one relationship should be based on nothing but absolute trust and honesty. Not bound by emotions or by the limits of the human kind, it should be a connection of utmost comfort in both conversation and solitude. Perhaps the best one to look forward to and hopefully the last connection that I might make...


The Heart: My heart, my poor brittle heart that's addicted to pain needs someone to teach me all the emotions - angst, anger, jealousy, joy, happiness, love...this would be the one relationship based on nothing but gut feel and emotions...irrational, poetic, impulsive and hopelessly romantic. Bound by all that is human...


The Body: Hmmm...Physical attraction and intimacy...(censored) I dont need to tell you what this should be based on!


The Mind: Someone to capture my crazy, hyper-active, over-imaginative mind. To give me wings of fancy, to humour me, challenge me, feed me and talk to me. Someone to enliven my philosophy...If I made this connection, I'd probably marry her! (Ummm...assuming of course, she'd agree to it too!!!)


I dunno why I put this up here...I wrote it and didnt know who might read it! After all, I do believe in writing only if it must be read! So, here they are...my 4 women...

12 comments:

Fangs said...

why not 1 with all 4?

Mulling Over My Thoughts said...

hehe...
hmmm...since i am one down already, i might well make the most of the opportunity at hand to go for four!
:D
(or at least be a little optimistic about the opportunity!)

cute n confused said...

u'l find 1 tht will be all these 4 and something more. again biks, this i promise u.
gee..i keep promising u a lot huh...
well the last promise was fulfilled so lets hope for this one too!
:D

Mulling Over My Thoughts said...

dont disappoint me woman! when did i say i did not want 4 different women?
i dont want 1 with all the 4 and more...
:D

(let this boy be happy in his delusional world will ya?)

Sneha said...

:).This is really a nice post.:)

Siddharth said...

Mind, body, heart and soul! Beautiful post...
N I agree with Rohan... that was the first thing that came to my mind too...
'why not 1 with all 4?'

Mulling Over My Thoughts said...

@Sneha:> Thank you!

@Siddharth:> That would be a dream come true wouldn't it? If it could happen, I'd love it...unfortunately, all the women I like, seem to suddenly find their soul-mates after meeting me...accursed am I! Hence, I am left with but one option...to keep searching...and in the process hope that there are 4!
(of course, in all reality, i'm sure i wouldn't even get one!!!)

KAPPI said...

:)

Swayam said...

you are asking for a lot my friend... if you want all of this in one woman... but if you do, you'd know how lucky you are...:)

Anirudh Tiwari said...

the categorization is good..but i doubt you will find someone who falls in the fourth category...
With your "crazy, hyper-active, over-imaginative mind.", are you sure you will find some one like that? I doubt .. ;)

anuja said...

m confident ull find sum1 who fits the above...bt i wud lov to know hw well wil u meet her expectations..?? u mus blog on a gals perspective too... n c wher u std... ;)

Mulling Over My Thoughts said...

@Kappi:> :)

@Swayam:> hehe...i know! i'm asking for a lot in both cases! one woman or 4!!!

@Anirudh:> hehe...you have the same kinda mind my friend...if you do find someone, maybe then will i!

@anuja:> hmmm...i think you're well placed to answer that question for me! would you do so please?