My Four Women...

Having had cribbed about being single all my life, I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't take my share of the blame. I have to agree (with a friend of mine...though I hate to admit she's been right...) that unless a woman is out of reach, she isn't attractive to me. I love doomed relationships apparently...and in hindsight it seems to be an appropriate summary of my sad love life. Well, nonetheless, I thought a little and I reckon if I am not gonna have one successful relationship, I'd like to have 4 different relationships based on the 4 facets that go into making a successful relationship.

1. Soul


2. Heart


3. Body


4. Mind

The Soul: My soul, I do know isn't as pure as I thought it was but I always hoped to be completed by someone with a soul that was purer than mine. This one relationship should be based on nothing but absolute trust and honesty. Not bound by emotions or by the limits of the human kind, it should be a connection of utmost comfort in both conversation and solitude. Perhaps the best one to look forward to and hopefully the last connection that I might make...

The Heart: My heart, my poor brittle heart that's addicted to pain needs someone to teach me all the emotions - angst, anger, jealousy, joy, happiness, love...this would be the one relationship based on nothing but gut feel and emotions...irrational, poetic, impulsive and hopelessly romantic. Bound by all that is human...

The Body: Hmmm...Physical attraction and intimacy...(censored) I dont need to tell you what this should be based on!

The Mind: Someone to capture my crazy, hyper-active, over-imaginative mind. To give me wings of fancy, to humour me, challenge me, feed me and talk to me. Someone to enliven my philosophy...If I made this connection, I'd probably marry her! (Ummm...assuming of course, she'd agree to it too!!!)

I dunno why I put this up here...I wrote it and didnt know who might read it! After all, I do believe in writing only if it must be read! So, here they are...my 4 women...