Saturday, August 22, 2009

The Wobbly Bridge between Mars and Venus : Being Out on a Limb

Guys, love being able to prove they're macho, it's no hidden secret. Girls know that and they see past all the false bravado almost all the time. But the whole charade that guys put up, isn't in vain because somehow, girls like the elaborate efforts being made to woo and impress them. But you know what really clinches the deal with women? When they see the guys vulnerable and susceptible. Guys love trying to be macho but more often than not, when it's really needed, it's the women that are macho! The first step to solidifying that wobbly bridge, is often when it seems to be the weakest, when you dare to put yourself out on a limb. It's wonderful to feel that strong hand that pulls you in...the one you thought was always the weaker!


Saurabh said...

Hmm ...
Having been there (still there actually) - I kinda agree with your observation though I have a somewhat different take on the situation.

I tried putting it in words, but couldn't go through without creating some sort of a controversy. (and thats the last thing I want to do :p)

So I'm not going to go down that road :)

But yeah.. I agree with the gist of the matter :)
Well put in.

Mulling Over My Thoughts said...

Controversy is good!

M S Ahluwalia said...

very true.. though needs more explanation.. but then, in that case this would become a lesson in Psychology ..hehe

Bluebutterfly said...

Hmm... It would certainly be interesting to see a guy be the vulnerable one first...
Agreed, girls dig it..
But then they guys need assurance... maybe a little damsel in distress drama !